What do you WANT ?
What do you NEED ?
What is your ROLE ?
The questions is not so bad, what do you want from your time in SL ? what is your need to be there ? and what role do you want to have ? I have understand that SL will never be more fun then them i spend the time with there.
I know what i want and what my need is and what role i want, and much of my sl is as i want it but still the most difficult is to find others to spend that good time with, that have the same needs and want what i can give them and want the role that complements mine.
There are many factors that influence whether a new contact will be a one-off meeting or something that will last for years. How often you are online and how often the other person is and during what hours, but also how well you have communicated what you are looking for. But I think we all too often take the shortcut and say they're not serious or just drop out in the middle of it all because they've had their fun. It might also sometimes be a sign that there's been a misunderstanding of what they expected and what I took for granted.
BWPT focuses on the role you want and what the other person is looking for and only has a few roles to choose from. BWPT is primarily aimed at those who want a long-term relationship with d/s and raceplay. If you are looking for fun-and-run, you will be disappointed, as you will be blocked and listed as not serious in our database which is searchable by our members, and make it harder for you to get new contacts no matter in what sim you stands in.
Roles
Dominant
Only black people can be fully dominant, you can be dominant but have choice to submit to the black race or been forced to it, but you will have a submissive role if you not are black, there is one exception, the Racetraitor.
A dominant can be alone or part of a gang / organization.
Racetraitor
The Racetraitor can be dominant or more a switch, and only females from other races can be Racetraitors. She will still be under a dominant or a gang and obey them but can control slaves for the gang or owner.
Submissive
Black submissive's are not slaves, they are submissive to there owner or gang and have the right to stop the ownership if they so please, but as everything else its a agreement between the sub and the owner/owners.
Slave
If you not fit in to the above roles you will be a slave. It can be by your free will or by force but as fast as you are classified as slave you are stripped from all rights and will for a life to please, serve and obey your owner or owners.
Of course this is also a agreement between you and the owner, It is not ok to break limits and deliberately make time in SL boring for the slave. It is good to communicate sometimes to check if everything is ok.
More information about gangs can be found here and here.
Under your profile as member and when you create your account you can put in what you are and what you are looking for but also when you mostly are online, for make as good match as possible.
If you already have a contact then you can connect to that one from your profile as well if you are a couple.
When you are finished with the settings we have for them that is brave, a option that BWPT choice a owner for you. ( Dominant's do not have that option.)
I know what i want and what my need is and what role i want, and much of my sl is as i want it but still the most difficult is to find others to spend that good time with, that have the same needs and want what i can give them and want the role that complements mine.
There are many factors that influence whether a new contact will be a one-off meeting or something that will last for years. How often you are online and how often the other person is and during what hours, but also how well you have communicated what you are looking for. But I think we all too often take the shortcut and say they're not serious or just drop out in the middle of it all because they've had their fun. It might also sometimes be a sign that there's been a misunderstanding of what they expected and what I took for granted.
BWPT focuses on the role you want and what the other person is looking for and only has a few roles to choose from. BWPT is primarily aimed at those who want a long-term relationship with d/s and raceplay. If you are looking for fun-and-run, you will be disappointed, as you will be blocked and listed as not serious in our database which is searchable by our members, and make it harder for you to get new contacts no matter in what sim you stands in.
Roles
Dominant
Only black people can be fully dominant, you can be dominant but have choice to submit to the black race or been forced to it, but you will have a submissive role if you not are black, there is one exception, the Racetraitor.
A dominant can be alone or part of a gang / organization.
Racetraitor
The Racetraitor can be dominant or more a switch, and only females from other races can be Racetraitors. She will still be under a dominant or a gang and obey them but can control slaves for the gang or owner.
Submissive
Black submissive's are not slaves, they are submissive to there owner or gang and have the right to stop the ownership if they so please, but as everything else its a agreement between the sub and the owner/owners.
Slave
If you not fit in to the above roles you will be a slave. It can be by your free will or by force but as fast as you are classified as slave you are stripped from all rights and will for a life to please, serve and obey your owner or owners.
Of course this is also a agreement between you and the owner, It is not ok to break limits and deliberately make time in SL boring for the slave. It is good to communicate sometimes to check if everything is ok.
More information about gangs can be found here and here.
Under your profile as member and when you create your account you can put in what you are and what you are looking for but also when you mostly are online, for make as good match as possible.
If you already have a contact then you can connect to that one from your profile as well if you are a couple.
When you are finished with the settings we have for them that is brave, a option that BWPT choice a owner for you. ( Dominant's do not have that option.)